Roblox Help Guide
Private Chat on Roblox
“DM a friend, or whisper to just one player in a game.”
Last Updated: June 2026
On Roblox, a private chat lets you talk to just one person instead of the whole server. It is perfect for planning a build or catching up with a friend.
There are two kinds. A direct message (DM) is a private chat with a friend in the Roblox app, and a whisper is a private message you send to one player while you are inside a game.
Before either one works, chat has to be turned on for your account. Since January 2026, Roblox asks you to pass a quick age check first, and younger players may need a parent to say yes.
That might sound like a lot, but it only takes a minute, and we will walk you through every part.
Well, here is how to set up both kinds of private chat, plus a few easy safety tips.
The Quick Answer
To private chat on Roblox, open the blue chat box in the app and pick a friend to send them a direct message. To whisper inside a game, type /w, then the player’s name and your message, like /w BuilderPal hi. Chat has to be turned on in Settings first, which needs a quick age check.
How to Private Chat on Roblox
1
Turn on chat with the age check
First, chat has to be switched on, and Roblox uses a quick age check to do it.
– Open Roblox, go to Settings, and look for the chat options
– If chat is locked, follow the age check prompt, which is a fast face scan or an ID
– If you are under 16, a parent may need to say yes first, which is normal and keeps you safe
– This is the same check that unlocks voice chat
2
Open the chat box to DM a friend
A direct message is the easiest private chat, and it lives right in the app.
– Look for the blue chat box in the bottom corner of the screen
– Click it to see which of your friends are online
– You can only DM people on your friends list, so add them as a friend first
3
Send your private message
Once the chat window is open, talking is just like texting.
– Tap a friend’s name to open your private chat with them
– Type your message in the box at the bottom and press Enter or Send
– Only the two of you can see these messages
4
Whisper to one player inside a game
A whisper is a private message you send while you are playing, so only one player sees it.
– Open the in-game chat by clicking the chat icon or pressing the / key
– Type /w, then a space, the player’s name, another space, and your message
– For example, type /w BuilderPal nice house and press Enter
5
Use the click-to-whisper shortcut
If you would rather not type the command, there is an easy shortcut.
– In the chat box, tap or click the player’s name
– Wait for [To Username] to appear in the typing area
– Type your message and send it, and it goes to that player only
– A few games turn whisper off, so it will not work in every experience
6
Stay safe while you chat
Private chat is a lot of fun, and a few simple habits keep it that way.
– Only chat with people you really know, like real-life friends and family
– Never share private things like your real name, age, address, school, or passwords
– Roblox filters chat to block mean or unsafe messages, and you can block or report anyone
If a chat option is greyed out, the age check or a parent usually needs to finish first, and you can always feel free to message us for help.
Private Chat on Roblox FAQ
How do I whisper to someone on Roblox?
Open the in-game chat, type /w followed by the player’s name and your message, then press Enter. For example, /w BuilderPal hello sends a private message only that player can read.
Why can’t I chat on Roblox?
Chat is probably turned off for your account. Since January 2026 you have to pass a quick age check to switch it on, and players under 16 may need a parent’s permission first.
Can I private message someone who is not my friend?
You can whisper to anyone in the same game, but direct messages in the app only work with people on your friends list. Add them as a friend first to DM them.
Is private chat on Roblox safe for kids?
It can be. Roblox filters every chat to block unsafe messages, chat is off by default for young players, and parents can control it. The best rule is to only chat with people you truly know.
Does whisper work in every game?
No. Some game creators turn whisper off and use their own chat instead, so if /w does nothing, that game has simply disabled it.
How do I stop someone from messaging me?
Open their profile or the chat, choose Block, and they can no longer message you. You can also report anyone being unkind, or appear offline so friends do not see you online.
Want the official rules?
Roblox explains chat, age checks, and parental controls in its Roblox Support help center. If chat will not turn on, ask a parent to help with the age check, and update the app so you have the newest safety settings.